If you want a man to fall in love with you, it all comes down to your ability to accept love. When you ask more of a man than he gives back, he becomes disinterested.
Showering him with affection, attention, dinners, presents, and a constant out-of-the-way excursion to his place, instead of kindling his emotional desire for you
makes him think of you as a mother or a friend. Avoid paying for dates as well. He considers you a "friend" as soon as you pay for a date.
If you are exclusive and romantically loyal to a man who has not made a "forever" commitment to you, you are in a tough emotional situation.
You fall completely in love with him because he has all of your time and attention. You are unable to stop worrying about the relationship's future.
You might leave your options open by dating other guys instead of addressing the relationship or imposing deadlines on him.
You want to plan the date because you don't want him to be late. But you'll never know what a guy is capable of unless you let him do what he does, even if it's nothing.
It's amazing how, once you learn to respect your own boundaries and feelings, you can just accept a man for who he is before deciding whether or not to date him.
When you adopt this mindset, a man will go out of his way to be with you. He falls in love with a woman who respects him enough not to "pick up the slack" for him.